This is a topic so little talked about and yet so needed. Many relationships start with a hot sexual bang that truly amazing. But then a old pattern that originates unconsciously suddenly returns. The other person becomes unsexy, smelly,irritating and anything but a suitable sexual partner.
At this moment it is time to realise that old patterns of resistance returned and that your partner is exactly the same person you used to enjoy.
Your sexual activities is a medicine and a source of creation. In my experience the resistance was actually my coping mechanism for same things that happened when I was a child.
My nervous system learned to withdrawn from intimacy when someone really loves me. Since I recognize this my healing started and am I on this journey learning and healing everyday.